Esto lo escribo en ingles. Hello April,
I was reading about your “nice guys finish last” article how American women chase the bad guys and leave the good guys alone.
You should tell the good guys to come to Mexico. 😀
Women who have suffered poverty and single parenthood in Mexico really do like nice guys. I am Mexican-American, dual national, and there is no shortage of wonderful, strong, independent and beautiful women in Mexico who seek nice men — in fact they really enjoy American men and they are not looking for green cards.
I’ve already helped a number of my single male friends who are “typical nice guys” meet their future wives here
in Mexico. I have to give them crash courses in Spanish, but they learn and the language of Love is universal.
I wish you could point these poor guys in a southerly direction, but make it a point to tell them they have to leave U.S. culture to find truly worthy women. Women in the U.S. (of ANY ethnic origin) change and conform to consumerism too strongly. And they don’t suffer in terms of poverty and deprivation as they do in Mexico or
other third world countries.
You don’t die of hunger in the U.S. Children don’t die of hunger in the U.S. — especially US born children, there’s Medi-Care. And deadbeat dads pay their child support — in Mexico they leave and go to the U.S. and pay nothing and start new families and leave women to fend for themselves. It is horrible, awful, and definitely
not what a “nice guy” would do. And when these women who have really suffered for their children and themselves meet a “nice guy” that U.S. women discard, they cannot believe that any woman would discard them.
Tell your male readers to look outside the U.S. culture — that they can still be “nice guys” and not become “bad guys” to get a date or find a wife and have a family. I am only one person and I have told as many as will listen to me, but you have the ear of a wider audience. Mexico, Honduras, Nicaragua, El Salvador, Guatemala,
Belize, Panama, Haiti, Dominican Republic, Venezuela, Colombia, Ecuador, Bolivia etc… There is no shortage of women in these countries who would love to love and be loved by “nice guys”.
And you don’t have to be rich or even have a car to experience love.
