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What photos or links? Sure people can block others If they don’t want that? Or you can scan the messages for this sort of thing.

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Is this what saying? i’ll make it look like a math sum.

Buying the book = Advancing ones knowledge, which means after a few attempts you’ll definately succeed that = Getting confidence and that = My mind going blank when it comes to thoughts (negative ones so i’ll act how a normal person would and that = me just making the right moves (whether its kissing techniques or being more intimate physically or even if its just telling them how i feel) and as by then i’ve got the confidence and doing the stuff without even thinking and treating it like if its like something you do in everyday life. And doing all that = success.

Is that right or is there more to it thats in the book?

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I clicked on that link and I had a look at the chapters and looked on what you wrote as a preview on it and even though it does touch one issue with me, which is confidence. I know all the other parts of it I follow (going by all the chapters that you’ve listed and spoke about). I could be wrong, but I didnt see a chapter on how to improve your confidence when it came to kissing or being in the bedroom. Which is why I think women run a mile as they only want a bloke with confidence dont they.

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Did my last post come up then, didnt get a confirmation 😕

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What you mean everybody does 😕 Plus you havent seen my behaviour around women (the ones that iI want to pick up) or how I look, etc 😕

You didnt answer me when I asked you, what sort of questions should I be asking as I thought I was being personal, but you thought I werent?

Plus you said that buying your book, will make me feel better about kissing, sex, etc. What do you mean by that, do you mean whilst i’m doing it, building up to it or afterwards?

I was thinking of you/me/current and future posters when i said that.

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I didnt get any reaction, only yours. You say reading my comments, etc makes you feel like you’re getting to know me. Not sure I want to know the answer to this, but apart from making things about others and not myself and being a bit opinionated (as I know you think this already). What do you think of me or better still what do you think of my potential? (Or do you need to know more about me before you answer that 😕 )
What do you mean by asking [b][color=#FF0000]personal[/color][/b] questions. What sort of questions should I be asking?

Mainly women yes as I feel psyking yourself up works on everything apart from getting success with women. Even though I knew that ages ago. I just wondered why thats all, which is why I asked on here about it. You should create a feedback section on here for previous/current memebers for them to give you feedback as not only will they get chance to say thank you and you’ll feel good for helping them, but others can see what their problems were in the first place and it saves them posting the same messege several times and you dont have to repeat yourself.

Is that when i’m leading up to it, during or after doing those things,(Sex/Kissing)?

You have so many pages on Facebook, have I joined the right one 😕

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I think this post is going to get a mixed reaction. Unexperianced women will like this piece of advice and will move on with their lives and won’t let this bother them. However I think any unexperianced guys will feel worse after reading it as it more or less says, “women don’t panic as its the guys job to lead you, etc”

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When you feel like this, you should only worry if his behaviour changes towards whether its what he/doesnt says or doesn’t do/does. Would it make a differance if someone else took the photos? And as for you leaving him, maybe you’re using this as an excuse as you may think at times. “I might as well go and live my dream as he’s got his dream by working with gorgeous women”, etc. So when you make your decision about leaving, think how would you feel after a few months and you don’t see him and also would you make the same decision if his job didn’t involve these models? I can see your situation is a bit confusing, which is why I think you need several replies from differant people as the more opionions you have on this, the better it is for you.

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[quote=”April Masini”][b]Crazed-driver[/b], you have posted a lot of academic situations in this forum. Rather than philosophize, [b][color=#0000FF]tell me about relationship problems you have in your REAL LIFE [/color][/b]— not [i]possible[/i] problems that may or may not happen. Stop holding the world at arm’s length distance. You’ll find intimacy and specific advice that way.

Please join me on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=mf[/url].[/quote]

Thought I already did 😕 And with the advice you gave me i’m going to follow it to the best of my ability.

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[quote=”April Masini”][b]Crazed-driver[/b], you have posted a lot of academic situations in this forum. Rather than philosophize, [b][color=#0000BF]tell me about relationship problems you have in your REAL LIFE [/color][/b]— not [i]possible[/i] problems that may or may not happen. Stop holding the world at arm’s length distance. You’ll find intimacy and specific advice that way.

Please join me on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=mf[/url].[/quote]

Thought I already had 😕 And i’m going to do what you said, but I know it will take time.

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I understand the feelings aspect totally before you explained it, but I didn’t get what you meant by location. I guess they’re are two sides to that part of it, one being what you just said and one being that if the date is in a mutual place of they’re liking then it gives both of them the opportunity to shine. I suppose what I’m trying to say is after hearing what you said about the location, there is no right answer and its down to the individual.

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[quote=”April Masini”][b]Crazed-driver[/b], [color=#0000FF]you have to see that getting out of your comfort zone is the only way to build self esteem and win with women.[/color] You seem very protective of this guy’s feelings, but it’s a lot more important for him to take action and not become a victim of his feelings.

Read Date Out of Your League (you, especially, will really benefit from it) to learn what women want and how to get and keep them! Here’s the link for that book: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

As long as you — or he — only does what makes you comfortable or happy, you’re never going to get the girl who is worth chasing and fighting battles for. Men love winning, but there is no win without a chase or a fight.

I hope that helps and that you’ll finally take my advice and read this book!

Please join me on Facebook, too. Here’s that link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=mf[/url].[/quote]

I gathered that. But surely its possible to do it and end up enjoying it after. For example a man wouldnt take a woman to a soccer match on their first date would they as they dont like it a much as men. (Well most dont). So surely a guy can take a woman somewhere that they will both enjoy doing that activity when out of their comfort zone 😕 Saying that do you mean comfort zone as in feelings or location? With feelings i totally agree with you see and the guy should be more forward/flirty/entertaining etc. But surely the surroundings have to be right first 😕

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So it is possible to do all that in a place where he feels comfortable. For example at a place he likes best? As happyness can lead to confidance

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I meant when someone breaks up with you, you’re hurt, etc. So how do you get on their good side? Plus if you do end up on their good side and you’re friendly, etc. There’s a good chance you’re future partner will get jealous and make an issue out of it.

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Ask yourself. “Do you love him, do you trust him and do you want to be with him for life”. If the answer is “Yes” to all of these. Then sit him down, tell him you love him, etc and ask him how he feels. Ask him if he has anything he needs to tell you and then If he feels the same as you, tell him you don’t deserve then tell why that’s the case. After doing that, you’ve both cleared the air and there’s no more secrets between you both. If he then has trust issues after this, but still loves you, etc. You could try doing things together in small steps, maybe spend small amount of time together, maybe do some trust exercises together. If he takes the news badly, but still loves you, therapy might be worth a try.

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