[quote=”crazed-driver”]How long was it after your engagement did he start to behave this way? Anyway I think if he’s not cheating, he’s keeping his options wide open by flirting, exchanging photos, etc and being extremely disrespectful. Did you question your mates when you found out about it? Personally if my gf acted like this, I’ll finish with her on the spot, I wouldn’t even think twice and if my “mates” take her side over mine or lied to me, then I’d ditch them too.[/quote]
It started before the engagment – but it had calmed down alot at the time but it started again weeks afterwards. And yes I asked them about it and they said they were just having a laugh. His ex that sent him the long messages – Ive just found out by snooping Misses him – apparently they talked alot about getting married before he met me and he was saying something about he couldnt do anything because she had moved on with someone else and due to the “circumstances” now he cant do anything…He also said months ago that he hopes he got into the navy soon to get away.
