I can’t tell you that it’s an ironclad truth that if someone cheats once they’ll cheat again — however, the reason for cheating is pretty important. That your boyfriend cheated on you because he wanted more sex makes me wonder if he ever told you before he cheated that he wanted more sex. In other words, do you believe that this reason is a legitimate one — that he really wanted more sex? If that’s true, how much sex was he getting and how much more did he need?
If he’s the kind of guy who needs sex multiple times a day and if he can’t get it from you he’s going to look elsewhere with no warning, you’re in for a bumpy ride — and I don’t mean in bed! 😆 The other problem is that if he has a problem in the relationship — whether it’s sex or something else — his not coming to you first, and instead taking problems and solutions in his own hands, isn’t a great tool for relationships. Ideally, he would come to you first and tell you he’s unhappy and what he would like to be different so that YOU would have first crack at giving him what he wanted if you so desired.
In relationships it’s common that both people don’t get everything they want at the same time, but cheating isn’t going to fortify the relationship. Instead, communicating, compromising, sacrificing, being honest and respectful and acting as a couple, not as two independent entities is what keeps relationships together.
I hope this helps. Let me know how things go.
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